120 Questions to Ask a Girl You Like – From Deep to Flirty, Personal to Funny

Developing a rapport with a girl you like can take time–so, we’ve put together a list of 30 questions to ask a girl that are sure to help you get to know her and keep the conversations coming.

What’s your name?

First things first, introductions! Asking a girl her name might seem like a no-brainer, but when you first meet someone it’s easy to gloss over their name.


What do you do for work?

Simple questions will get the ball rolling. Go ahead and ask about her current occupation. Maybe the two of you are in the same field and can geek out and talk shop together.


What is your dream job?

When she was growing up, did she dream of being a veterinarian or a rocket scientist? Has she grown up to succeed in the career field she dreamt of as a child?


When is your birthday?

She could have a birthday coming up soon, giving you two an excuse to hang out. (As if you needed an excuse to see her.)


How do you celebrate your birthday?

Does she celebrate her birthday as if it’s a national holiday, or does she enjoy a quieter night in with her friends? This question is a good follow-up to asking when her birthday is.


Have you ever broken any bones?

Asking about medical history is a social faux pas when you’re only beginning to get to know someone. But asking about minor injuries, such as a broken arm, is harmless.


Is there a book you could read numerous times without ever growing tired of it?

Ask her about her literary prowess. Is she an avid reader or does she just find comfort in a certain novel series? If you’re a bibliophile, you’ll certainly have something to add to this question.