Having the right questions to ask a girl will help ease the process of developing a rapport with her. If you are stuck on what to ask in a conversation, we’ve put together a list of 120 questions to ask a girl that are sure to help you get to know her and keep the conversations coming.
Not everyone has an immediate connection with effortless communication. Therefore, initiating the conversation with a question is a great way to bring you closer to the girl you’re talking to.
Communication relies heavily on the connections we have. Some of us thrive with a friend or partner that is the antithesis of our own personality and style, others need someone with tastes similar to their own. So, dig a little deeper and ask her about herself.
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In a rush? Here’s a rundown of what you can read today.
- 30 general questions to ask a girl
- 5 more preliminary questions
- 25 flirty questions
- 10 personal questions
- 10 funny questions
- 10 deep questions
- 10 love related questions
- 20 this or that questions.
What should you do when asking a girl questions?
There are three rules to adhere to when asking a girl questions.
- Don’t speed run through a list of questions: You’re wanting to build a relationship, not a court case.
- Make sure there is context for the question you’re asking: You don’t want to give her conversational whiplash by asking irrelevant, random questions in rapid succession. Of course, there will be lulls in the conversation, and if that happens go ahead and pull out a random, casual question. But play it on the safe side until you know how quirky she is.
- Follow-up with your own experiences and answers: A conversation involves two people. Don’t just sit there and ask her about herself, she wants to know about you too!
Now go forth and brush up on the different questions that will help you get to know a girl better.
Also check out our list of the best questions to ask a guy!
What are questions to ask a girl to get to know her better?
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Questions to ask a girl to get to know her better can range from general topics to random joke ladden questions. Whether you’ve just met someone or you’ve known her for a while, it’s important to ask meaningful questions in order to show your interest. By meaningful we’re referring to questions which move you both a step towards getting to know each other a little better.
Start with the basics, and get more granular as the conversation progresses. Turn to these 30 questions to ask a girl to get to know her better, and be ready to use her answers as jumping-off points for further conversation.
1. What’s your name?
First things first, introductions! Asking a girl her name might seem like a no-brainer, but when you first meet someone it’s easy to gloss over their name.
And you definitely don’t want to call a girl you’re interested in by a different name. So, make sure you ask for her name and commit it to memory. (We recommend saying over in your head three times when you first hear it to avoid having to ask twice!)
2. What do you do for work?
Simple questions will get the ball rolling. Go ahead and ask about her current occupation. Maybe the two of you are in the same field and can geek out and talk shop together.
Regardless of her career path, this question will help segue from your initial salutations.
3. What is your dream job?
When she was growing up, did she dream of being a veterinarian or a rocket scientist? Has she grown up to succeed in the career field she dreamt of as a child?
4. When is your birthday?
We all have a birthday, so you might as well ask her when she was born.
She could have a birthday coming up soon, giving you two an excuse to hang out. (As if you needed an excuse to see her.)
You might also ask what her sign is. If she reacts as though the question is corny, that gives you some insight as to what types of things she might not be interested in.
5. How do you celebrate your birthday?
Does she celebrate her birthday as if it’s a national holiday, or does she enjoy a quieter night in with her friends? This question is a good follow-up to asking when her birthday is.
If she asks to see you near or on her birthday, you’ll know how to appropriately handle the situation.
6. Have you ever broken any bones?
Not everyone makes it through life unscathed. Some people are so accident prone they could have a hospital wing named after them.
Asking about medical history is a social faux pas when you’re only beginning to get to know someone. But asking about minor injuries, such as a broken arm, is harmless. (Bonus points if you follow up with your own harrowing story of having eaten it skiing and went home in a cast!)
7. Is there a book you could read numerous times without ever growing tired of it?
Ask her about her literary prowess. Is she an avid reader or does she just find comfort in a certain novel series?
If you’re a bibliophile, you’ll certainly have something to add to this question.
8. What was the last book you read?
Similar to question #7 but broader. Instead of just knowing her favorite read you’ll be able to learn more about the range of genres she enjoys.
9. Would you rather spend the night playing video games or board games?
Game nights are an excellent way to bond with a girl. But first, find out which form of entertainment she prefers. If she says neither, ask her for an alternative activity indoors.
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10. Could you ever see yourself abandoning your current lifestyle in exchange for a nomadic life?
Is she content in her situation or does the idea of taking to the open road and forging her own path excite her? This can segue into a hopes and dreams type conversation, touching on dream travel destinations and bucket list items.
11. Where do you stand on the pineapple pizza discourse?
The internet has been feuding for years about the moral standing of pineapple pizza. Asking her opinion on the bromeliad topped pizza will definitely help move the conversation along.
12. If you could go back in time, without changing the past, where would you go and why?
Maybe she’s a history buff that wants to experience a major cultural moment. Or she might be more sentimental and choose to experience a moment with family members from her past.
13. Do you use social media?
Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, or does she abstain from all forms of social media? If she has the same accounts as you, this is your chance to add her on it! Just, make sure you’re not too over eager–it could (rightly) come off stalkerish.
14. What’s the biggest event you’ve ever attended?
This question is good to ask if you’re someone that frequents concerts, festivals, or other large-scale events.
15. If you were in a band, what instrument would you play?
We’re all guilty of fantasizing about the life of a rockstar whether we admit to it or not. Get to know a little more about her inner workings of her mind. Is she the eccentric lead singer, or the reserved, yet cool, bassist? Lighthearted questions like this are a great way to keep the conversation playful.
This can also easily segue into discussions about favorite bands–Is she more into classics like Cream, or newer artists like Billie Eilish? How well do your tastes line up, and how much does it actually matter? These are great indicators of taste and personality.
16. Do you collect anything?
Part of building relationships is opening up to someone about your passions and interests. To spend the time, money, and effort to have a collection implies importance. So, regardless of what she collects, asking her about it will help her slowly open up to you about more personal elements without being too revealing.
Of course, she might not have any collections of her own, driving you to follow-up with your own collection revelation.
17. If you could bring to life any idea for an invention what would you create?
This is a fun question that will give you a chance to see her creative side. Feel free to get some brainstorming going on together, or if her invention is incredibly wacky, throw in some flirtatious teasing.
18. Did you play sports as a kid?
Was she out on the field or sitting on the sidelines? Use this question as a chance to challenge her to a little 1:1 sometime in the future.
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19. What was the last movie you saw in theaters?
If you’ve seen it, compare your thoughts on whether or not you liked the movie. If you haven’t seen it then ask her if it’s good.
Use this as an opportunity to ask her to go catch a movie with you sometime.
20. Have you ever traveled outside of the country?
Is she a jetsetter or a homebody, and how does that mesh with your lifestyle? Whether she’s well-traveled or not, you can at always talk about your own experiences.
Of course, don’t drone on and on or bore her to death if she’s uninterested.
21. What’s your ultimate travel destination?
Regardless of where or if she has traveled in the past, you can always ask her where she’s dying to go in the future.
If the two of you share a dream destination, then go ahead and plan your ultimate trip together. It doesn’t have to be serious, just have fun with an imaginary vacation. Maybe if you’re lucky it will happen later on.
22. If you could choose to never something again for the rest of your life with no consequences, which would you choose?
Some tasks are so mundane but necessary it feels like pulling teeth to perform them. However, we all have different opinions about which monotonous responsibilities are the worst.
Would she jump at the chance to never brush her hair again or never wash the dishes? Her answer may surprise you.
23. What’s one of the first memories you can recall?
This question is sure to bring about some interesting answers. If it’s the first memory we can remember it must be pretty important. But sometimes the memories that stick with us are more absurd than they are significant. Either way, it can be fun to talk about!
24. Are you the type of person who can easily wake up first thing in the morning or do you need multiple alarms?
Does she require five separate alarms going off every few minutes to get going in the morning or does she naturally rise at the crack of dawn?
Get an idea of what your future could hold with this question. If she has a hard time in the mornings, you’ll know to set your own alarm to help her out when you stay the night.
25. If you were reincarnated as an animal, what animal would you most likely become?
Everyone has a favorite animal but what animal does she see herself as in a different life? This is an example of a fun question that could deviate towards a deeper conversation.
Take it a step further and ask her why she would end up as that specific animal. Just be ready to give her your answer as well. You could also frame the question as “what is your spirit animal?”
26. Do you have any hidden talents?
When it comes to hidden talents the word “talent” is subjective. These could range from juggling, to playing the guitar behind her back.
Finding out about the talent is sure to drum up a good conversation, but the story behind how she discovered it in the first place might be even better.
27. What is the most bizarre dream you remember having recently?
We all have dreams, some of us just don’t remember them all the time. Asking her about her subconscious adventures will show her you care about what’s going on in her head, even if she’s experiencing all of it on her own.
28. When you go to an amusement park are you there for the rides, snacks, or both?
How much of a thrill seeker is she? If you’re someone that loves an adrenaline rush, this is a good way to find out if she’s a match for you. It’s much more fun to ride a rollercoaster with a cute girl.
Of course, if she’s averse to thrill rides but is down for some the culinary offerings then you still luck out with a potential date.
29. Have you ever seen (insert your favorite movie here)?
Asking her questions about your interests is an advantageous way to learn more about her while also offering up some information about yourself.
If she’s never seen the movie then you have a chance to be the one to show it to her. If she has seen it, hopefully she enjoys it as much as you do!
30. What’s your biggest academic achievement?
Whether we co-facilitated a program on our college campus or won an award for student of the week in primary school, there’s likely something we’re proud of about our academic pursuits.
Get her to brag about herself and find out just how impressive this girl really is.
Looking for more questions to ask a girl?
If you’re looking for more questions to ask a girl, we have you covered. There are many nuances when it comes to conversing with someone, from different topics to learning how to read the room. Follow along for a more detailed breakdown of questions if the first 30 didn’t cover enough ground.
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What are conversation starter questions to ask a girl you don’t really know?
Conversation starter questions to ask a girl act as a stepping stone to deeper topics. It’s easy to overthink and forget about the basics when you’re talking to a girl you like. If you’re trying to strike up a conversation with a girl that you haven’t met or barely know, then the conversation starter questions below will help you break the ice.
1. Have you been here before?
When the girl you’re interested in is a stranger, or even a girl you’re just starting to hang out with, asking her if she frequents the present locale is a tried-and-true way to initiate conversation.
2. How has your week been?
Simple, but it works to keep conversations alive. Go ahead and embrace small talk. Not everything needs to be a vigorous debate.
3. What did you do on your last day off?
You could ask her how she likes to spend her free time, but it’s so easy to fall back on an “I don’t know” response. Asking her a more specific question will allow for her to be better prepared to answer, and allow for you to have a better understanding of her interests and hobbies.
4. How long have you lived in the area?
Have you been neighbors for years or is she new to the area? Offer to show her around sometime if she’s recently moved to your city or ask about what she likes about it so far.
5. What are you drinking?
Whether you’re at a coffee shop or bar this question is a good choice to break the ice. If she seems interested in talking to you maybe offer to buy her a second drink.
What are flirty questions to ask a girl
Disclaimer: As far as flirting is concerned there’s a fine line between what someone perceives as flirtatious and what they perceive as creepy. Avoid being a creep by trying to read her body language.
Flirty questions to ask a girl allow you to express attraction and interest without suggesting a serious romance. If she’s laughing at your jokes and teasing you a bit, then you’re in a good position to be flirty. However, if she is closed off towards you with a nervous smile it isn’t the time to ask her about anything sexual or bring up other intimate topics. Try to feel for the vibes she’s giving you and maybe save some of the more risqué questions for another encounter with her. Below you will find 25 fun and flirty questions to ask a girl you like.
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1. What’s your most absurd turn on?
Do you have any unconventional attractions? Something that drives you wild but isn’t part of societies set beauty standards? If you do then go ahead and ask what her absurd turn on is.
This question remains lighthearted but digs a little deeper into what she’s attracted to in a man. It also requires the two of you to open up to each other more intimately.
2. What’s your most ridiculous turn off?
Does she have any major deal breakers that aren’t exactly problematic to anyone but herself? With a question like this she’ll likely already be laughing at herself for revealing her answer, but you can keep the flirting going by teasing her a little more about it.
3. Where’s the craziest place you’ve ever hooked up with someone?
Learn more about her mischievous side and ask her about the craziest hook up location. Is she down for a spontaneous hook up or does she stick to the bedroom?
4. Are you flirting with me?
So, you’re talking to a girl you’re interested in and she keeps touching your arm or laughing at all your jokes. It’s probably safe to say she’s being flirtatious. But why not ask her?
You’ll probably make her blush or is you’re lucky she’ll flat out tell you that she is in fact flirting with you. Just be sure to sound slightly flirtatious yourself when posing the question!
5. Have you ever been skinny dipping?
Similar to #3 on our list, asking her if she’s been skinny dipping will tell you more about her mischievous side, but it isn’t inherently sexual.
6. Have you ever gone home with someone after the first date?
What are your chances of taking things a little further? Keep in mind that just because she’s gone home with someone fast in the past doesn’t mean she will end up in your bed after this conversation. Whatever her answer to this question is, it doesn’t take away from her autonomy.
7. Do you ever make the first move?
Add a little emphasis on the “ever” in this question. Make it sound like you’re waiting for a cue to make a move or not.
You’ll also find out whether the ball’s entirely in your court if she answers that she expects the guy to do the legwork. Which is totally fine, you’re definitely game.
8. Who is your celebrity crush?
Find out who the lucky bastard is.
What Hollywood hunk are you up against? Because if it’s Henry Cavill you might need to up your game.
9. What is your worst, yet most comical date experience?
Some dates are so awful you never want to relive them, even as a story. Others are so bad they’re hilarious. These are the dates where we sit there thinking, “holy shit this is a terrible date. When can I leave?” To then look at the time and realize you’ve only been there for half an hour.
What are some of her hilariously bad dating experiences? Take some tips from this question so you never end up as the answer in the future.
10. What’s your most shameful experience involving a man?
Has she ever completely embarrassed herself in front of a guy she was seeing? Maybe she’s sent a text to a guy that was about actually about him.
Nevertheless, embarrassing dates and interactions with the opposite sex happen to everyone in one form or another, so this question is easy for both parties to relate to.
11. Have you ever been hot for a teacher?
We’re not talking about anything taboo here. Just a simple question about whether or not she found any of her past educators attractive.
12. Who was your first crush?
Did she have a crush on her childhood best friend or the popular boy in school? Or was it just a poster in her bedroom of the “it” boy at the time? You don’t get out of your comfort zone by talking about a childhood memory, and it can be a phone call question, too.
13. What’s your favorite pickup line?
Cheesy pick-up lines to the front! Now is the time to follow-up and jokingly ask her if it hurt when she fell…from heaven.
14. What did you think of me the first time we met?
Did she find you irresistibly handsome or was she unsure if you guys were going to hit it off?
No matter what her answer is, feel free to reply with something similar to, “So you admit it? You think about me?”
15. Which songs would you put on a mixtape for someone you had feelings for?
Taking the staple questions like, “What’s your favorite music?” and reworking them is a creative way to take the pressure off of someone. You’ll get a better idea of what genres she enjoys with this question.
16. What fictional character reminds you of yourself?
Does she relate to Khaleesi from Game of Thrones or is she more of a Rachel from Friends? Make it flirty and reply with, “Does that make me your Ross?” It’s okay to be corny sometimes!
Remember to always be ready with a reply and your own personal twist on the question.
17. What’s the worst pickup line someone has seriously used on you?
Has someone actually asked her about her fall from heaven? Or worse, has a guy referred to her as “milady?”
Learn more about what turns her off by asking her to recant her most cringe-worthy pickup attempts.
18. What’s your love language?
Asking about her love language will imply that you’re interested in utilizing the information she gives you with her response.
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19. How do you like your eggs?
This one’s important. How else will you know what to cook for her the morning after she spends the night? Worst thing that could happen is she says she doesn’t like eggs, and you find the right food combination she appreciates in the morning.
20. What do you find most attractive about yourself?
Find out what traits bring out her self-confidence. Definitely reassure her that she’s right but throw in something extra too.
This is a great way to give her a compliment without making her feel uncomfortable.
21. What do you consider the sexiest quality about a man?
Is she a fan of a five o’clock shadow or a chiseled jawline? What qualities or physical attributes does she find appealing?
22. Do you know you’re really distracting?
In this case, it’s good to be distracting. Let her know you can’t keep your eyes or mind off of her. It will definitely make her smile and probably tell you to shut up, but she doesn’t mean it. Don’t stop!
23. What would our couple name be?
There’s been Brangelina, Kimye, and now there’s whatever the two of you can come up with. Have some fun and figure out the best way for two names to become one. Then you’ll be ready for the tabloids.
24. Do you cuddle in bed or immediately roll over to the opposite side?
Ask this question and you’ll never read into her bedtime body language. Sometimes people are tired or want to get comfortable and laying on top of a body just isn’t great on their back.
25. Where should we go on our next date?
Go ahead, be presumptuous! You’ll also be letting her know you can’t wait to talk to her again.
What are personal questions to ask a girl?
Personal questions to ask a girl are necessary if you want to forge a deep connection. If you’re trying to have a more intimate conversation with the girl in question, then commit this list to memory. Intimacy and trust are going to form the more two people share their more personal feelings. Peel back the layers and get to know her with these 10 thoughtful, personal questions to ask a girl.
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1. Are you close to your family?
Asking about family is bound to lead to an interesting conversation. Watch for somebody and facial cues though because this could also be a sensitive topic for some girls.
Knowing more about her family will give you a leg up if you end up meeting them later on though.
2. Do you have any siblings?
Any sibling rivalry or are they a couple peas in a pod? It’s okay if she is an only child. Just take the lead and maybe tell her about your siblings instead.
3. Do you have any nieces or nephews?
If she does have siblings, what about nieces and nephews? Make sure you tell her you think she’s most likely the cool aunt.
4. Have you thought much about having kids of your own?
After asking about her nieces and nephews you can casually ask her about her own plans for a family. If you’re entirely opposed to children and she can’t wait to have them, then maybe this match isn’t made in heaven.
5. How close is too close when it comes to living near family?
So, she’s close to her family. But how close? Does she live across the country from them, or does she live down the street from them? Asking this question will give you an idea of how often you’ll have to see her parents when you start dating.
6. Do you have any irrational fears or phobias?
Heights, spiders, clowns, the Pope? We all have something we’re afraid of. Expressing our fears to other people is another way to build trust and companionship.
7. How do you decompress after a stressful day?
After a long day does she enjoy some alone time to relax, or does she hit the gym to work out some frustrations? It’s important to know. That way you’re never the one interrupting her when she’s trying to wind down.
8. Have you ever broken any laws? If yes, did you get caught?
Everybody makes mistakes. However, sometimes the mistakes we make are illegal. Find out if she’s led a life of crime or has been guilty of the occasional traffic violation.
9. How much do you value communication in a relationship?
If she expects her partner to be forthright then you should know ahead of time, so she doesn’t think you’re cold or keeping things from her. However, if she is bad at communicating then you’ll need to know when to take the lead.
10. Do you prefer to live alone or with roommates?
Is she a solitary person or does she enjoy having company at home? If she does have a roommate then you definitely want to get on their good side because you might be spending a decent amount of time at their place in the future.
What are funny questions to ask your girlfriend or crush?
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Funny questions to ask your girlfriend or crush are a combination of flirtatious banter and comical relief. Laughter brings people together and it triggers the production of endorphins. So, the more she laughs around you the more she will associate you with happiness. It’s science.
If you’re feeling nervous and overthinking what it means to be funny, this list of funny questions to ask a girl will help give you a starting point to work with.
1. If we were a couple on HGTV House Hunters, what would our occupations and price range be?
HGTV is widely known for their real estate series House Hunters. The show consists of couples on the market for a new house.
The show has recently become a meme due to the inconsistent occupations of the couples and their price range. For example, you may see a couple that consists of a schoolteacher and a part-time dance instructor, but their budget is $600k.
So, let your imagination run wild and envision your life together in the alternate universe that is HGTV.
2. Would you vacation on Mars?
The Mars invasion is underway. There’s already a plan to build a space station hotel, who’s to say Mars isn’t next up? Find out if her adventurous spirit is out of this world.
3. If you were living in a dystopian wasteland and you could choose any five people to live in a survivor’s compound with, who would they be and why?
Ask her to imagine the world after a zombie apocalypse or nuclear war, and then pick a group of people to survive with. You’ll get a better idea of who’s important to her, or who she thinks will be useful in an emergency.
4. What would your reality TV show intro be?
When a reality TV personality is introduced there is usually a monologue to accompany said introduction. Have her come up with a quick bit about her more outlandish traits.
5. How do you eat a cupcake?
There’s no deeper meaning here but it will most likely make her laugh because it’s such a ridiculous question.
6. Do you think the Olympics should have an average person competing in each sport to provide a baseline? And if so, which sport would you look forward to seeing most?
We get it. These are the best athletes of our time. But wouldn’t it be great to see a comparison?
7. What was one of your biggest “oh shit” moments in life?
We’ve all had moments where we realized we were in too deep. It’s interesting to see what different people perceive as a horrendous event, which makes this question even more fun.
8. What would your fight song be if you were a professional boxer?
This is another creative way to ask what music she likes, without directly asking what music she likes.
9. Do you think Carole Baskin killed her husband?
In the spring of 2020 the world was faced with a question, did Carole Baskin kill her husband? The social quandary that stemmed from Netflix’s docuseries quickly became the go to subject online.
Hey, if she doesn’t know who Carole Baskin is then you can always invite her over for a little “Netflix and chill” to catch up on the tiger rescue spectacle.
10. If you could choose your high school superlative what title would you give yourself?
Was she the jock or the class clown? Find out more about what she was like when she was younger by asking her what high school superlative she would give herself.
What are deep questions to ask a girl?
Deep questions to ask a girl will help you learn her thoughts on philosophical or hear her wax poetic about politics. These deep questions to ask a girl will increase the connection you’re forming as well as give you better insight into her true personality. Here are 10 deep questions to ask a girl.
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1. Would your adolescent self be proud of who you are today?
Sometimes people might be so humble they have a hard time talking about how amazing they are. This question makes for a great tactic to ask her how proud she is of her accomplishments.
2. Are you a religious or spiritual person?
Religion and spirituality can be a sensitive topic to bring up but it’s an important one. You’ll want to find out where she stands at some point in order to ensure you don’t offend her beliefs.
Remember to be respectful and don’t try to convert anyone.
3. What do you do with a shopping cart when you’re finished using it?
There is a virtual litmus test circulating the web that is called “The Shopping Cart Theory.” This theory seeks to define a person’s ability to self-govern by asking what they would do with a shopping cart if there was no one watching them. Would they put it back where it belongs or leave it in a parking lot?
Although there isn’t scholarship written on this theory, the idea behind it is soundly based in other philosophical schools of thought.
4. What are you hoping to accomplish in the next few years?
This question is a less stringent way of asking someone what their five-year plan is. By making it sound more casual and less like an interview question, she might be more at ease in answering.
5. Do you keep up with world news/politics?
Although politics affect everyone, some people aren’t keen on discussing their stance. Others don’t even keep their finger on the pulse. Before you bore her to death with your political commentary find out if politics are her cup of tea.
6. Have you ever had a close encounter, or experienced what you would call a glitch in the matrix?
Is she a Scully or a Mulder? Whether she wants to believe or not, she may still have an unbelievable experience or two you both can discuss.
7. If you were able to gain the ability to see the future would you seize the opportunity?
Having psychic powers and being able to see the future might seem like a good idea on paper. But when you really breakdown the repercussions are they worth it?
Does she want to know what happens next in life or is she fine living life day by day?
8. Are you a glass half full or glass half empty type of person?
Negativity gets old after a while. Figure out early on whether or not she’s an optimist or a pessimist by asking about her worldview.
9. Who would you consider your hero?
Does she look up to her parents or does she have a childhood mentor that helped guide her in life? The story that accompanies this question can also reveal a lot about her personal life.
10. Do you have a personal code of ethics?
Where does she stand as far as virtue ethics are concerned?
What are good questions to ask a girl about love and relationships?
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Good questions to ask a girl about love and relationships reveal her opinions on love and her past and future relationships. When two people connect it can be a whirlwind experience. Tread lightly in this category if you’re the jealous type. Only ask the questions you’re ready to hear the answers to.
Below are 10 important questions you can ask a girl you like about her love life and views on dating.
1. Do you believe in soulmates?
Does fate play a role in her love life? You’ll be able to learn about her personal beliefs surrounding love by asking this question.
2. Have you ever had a serious relationship?
Some people have loved and lost while others have been flying solo forever. It’s always good to know someone was able to stick with a relationship for a long period of time, but if she hasn’t that shouldn’t be a deal breaker!
Sometimes waiting for the right guy to come along while you establish a stable life for yourself is the healthiest lifestyle choice.
3. What happened to cause her last serious relationship to end?
So, she’s had a pretty serious relationship in the past. But what ended things?
Did she choose to call it off, or did he? Is she ready to start dating again or just looking for fun?
4. Have you ever been in love?
Just because the relationship was serious and lasted a long time doesn’t necessarily mean she felt like she was in love. Often times we will find ourselves looking back on relationships and realizing that we were more needy than in love.
5. Have you ever lived with someone you dated?
Has she ever taken the plunge to live with her significant other? They’re not still living together, right?
6. What actions do you consider to be too clingy or possessive?
One person’s idea of possessiveness is going to be another person’s idea of having a healthy amount of openness in a relationship. It’s good to ask what a girl thinks appropriate behavior is for a guy she likes.
That way, you also won’t be sitting around wondering if she’s really into you or not.
7. Are you still friends with anyone you dated in the past?
Contrary to popular belief, remaining friends with people you’ve dated is a good thing! This shows a level of maturity many have yet to reach.
Of course, there are times when closeness might seem a bit too close. Asking her upfront allows you to open the line of communication now and help build trust.
8. Do you consider yourself a jealous lover?
If you’re the one who is friends with their ex will she put her foot down to that friendship in the future?
Having a jealous streak isn’t all bad though. As long as she can admit to it then there’s the promise of communicating needs and learning to trust each other.
9. Do you prefer simple displays of affection or extravagant expressions of adoration?
Are flowers enough or does she need a grandiose display of affection? Ask her about her preferences before you go all out for a date.
10. What’s your dream date?
Is she the type of girl that likes a quiet evening in with her significant other or does she want to vacay in Majorca with her man?
What are this or that questions to ask your crush?
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This or that questions, or would you rather questions, are a fantastic way to know more about someone and great conversation starters. These questions are less invasive and don’t require the mental gymnastics some other types of questions force upon us.
This or that questions are simple, just choose one or the other. No further explanation is needed to guide you through adding these to your arsenal of dating talking points. Use these quick this or that questions as a way to break up the monotony in a conversation.
- When you cuddle with someone are you the big spoon or the little spoon?
- Do you like boxers or briefs on a guy?
- Phone calls or text messages?
- What’s more important to you, brains, or brawns?
- Would you rather watch the movie or read the book?
- Horror movies or romcoms?
- Do you prefer the mountains or the beach?
- Spontaneity or sticking to a plan?
- Would you rather have $10,000 to donate to a charity or $1,000 for yourself?
- Do you like coffee or tea?
- Do you work in silence or do you need background noise?
- When traveling, car or plane?
- City life or wide-open spaces?
- Would you rather watch a 2-hour movie or binge watch a TV series?
- Do you like guys with or without facial hair?
- Marvel or DC comics?
- Were you an *NSYNC or Backstreet Boys fan?
- History museum or art museum?
- Would you rather go lose your sense of taste or sense of touch?
- Cure cancer or end world hunger?
What are key points to remember about asking a girl questions?
There are three key points to remember about asking a girl questions. Firstly, conversations are not meant to be monologues. Don’t go on long rants about yourself. You need to have a healthy back and forth. Secondly, use this list as a starting point, not as a direct step by step process. If you start off just blowing through a list of questions, you’ll most likely freak the girl out. Take a couple of the previous questions in this list and commit them to memory to help your future conversations flow smoothly. With this list you’re sure to be able to hold your own with a girl you like. Thirdly, be mindful of your tone when asking a girl questions. If you use the wrong tone to ask your question you could give the wrong impression of yourself. Try to maintain a cheerful tone while you ask a girl questions about herself. An unhappy tone could lead her to believe you aren’t interested in what she has to say.
GOOD QUESTIONS TO ASK A GIRL (PDF VERSION)
Don’t go into your date unprepared. Instead of fumbling through random questions, give yourself a leg up with the printable version of our List of 120 Questions to Ask a Girl. Grab the .pdf file here.
Best questions to ask a girl: Final words
Questions to ask a girl can act as a cheat code on how to carry on a conversation with someone you’re interested in. We’ve reviewed the top 120 questions to a ask a girl that will not only help you jump-start the conversation, but keep it going. Just remember, your date isn’t an interview. Choose to listen carefully to her answers, and use these questions to further organic conversations.
What questions do you like to ask to find out more about someone you’re interested in? Let us know in the comment section!
I’ve had great convo with hundreds of women – but that’s as far as it goes. No woman has ever shown any interest in me other than as a conversation partner so here I am, mid-30s, and never been on a “date”. And no, I’ve never asked any woman out because without a sign from her that she sees me ‘that’ way, there is zero point in trying. Some guys have what it takes to attract women sexually – I don’t.
Or maybe it’s a misconception of yours? You being able to have great convos with women means there’s something going on. You won’t know what happens unless you try. Go for it.
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My favorite was the “how do you eat a cupcake” question she said she breaks the bottom half off & eats it like a sandwich. It said it would make her laugh for being a ridiculous question but I’m the one who was laughing for getting a ridiculous answer
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A question that can make her feel I am irreplaceable
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A question that can make her consider me as a caring guy
Ask her about what was the most bizarre dream she remembers having recently? Talk about the whys and how she felt?
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